From East to West: What Does It Mean to Feel Welcome?

카지노 게임 컬렉션�He카지노 게임 컬렉션�s not angry, it카지노 게임 컬렉션�s just German카지노 게임 컬렉션� 카지노 게임 컬렉션� if I had a euro for every time I카지노 게임 컬렉션�ve heard that gem of expat wisdom since moving to Germany three months ago, the beers would be on me! Germany isn카지노 게임 컬렉션�t my first experience living abroad, and it got me thinking 카지노 게임 컬렉션� what does a warm welcome really look like?

A serial expat, I카지노 게임 컬렉션�ve lived in four countries over the past five years. Despite the frantic buzz and being over 9,000 km from home, Hong Kong was the place that felt most like home. You could walk down the street and hear Dutch, then French, then Cantonese all in the space of a few minutes.

What made Hong Kong feel so welcoming? Well, for almost everyone who카지노 게임 컬렉션�d settled there, they were a long way from home. Far from friends and family, you카지노 게임 컬렉션�re forced to throw yourself in at the deep end, and create new support networks.

The Underlying Cause

With big differences between the friendliest countries, perhaps it카지노 게임 컬렉션�s less about where you are, and more about you. Feeling a sense of alienation or that you카지노 게임 컬렉션�re not wanted is, after all, classic culture shock. Three months in, I am a textbook example of the 카지노 게임 컬렉션�Negotiation카지노 게임 컬렉션� stage. The initial delight with lederhosen has dwindled, and the frustration of not being able to communicate in the wide variety of new situations I find myself in on a daily basis has taken over.

Being new means getting things wrong 카지노 게임 컬렉션� and accidentally winding up the locals! Baffled on a daily basis, so far I카지노 게임 컬렉션�ve managed to incur the wrath of an elderly lady on an escalator, book a doctor카지노 게임 컬렉션�s appointment in the wrong month, and miss my U-Bahn stop for work countless times. I카지노 게임 컬렉션�m officially a newbie, and it shows.

Stereotypes and Getting Settled

Dropped into a new environment, we often find ourselves using stereotypes to make sense of the world around us. While I presume the lady on the escalator talking to me in rapid German must be angry and unfriendly, she presumes that I카지노 게임 컬렉션�m yet another 카지노 게임 컬렉션�typical Brit카지노 게임 컬렉션� who only speaks English and is here for the beer 카지노 게임 컬렉션� thanks Oktoberfest!

Like many things, getting settled takes time. As you get to know a place, experience takes the place of stereotypes. Ultimately, I stayed in Hong Kong over two years. No wonder looking back it seems friendlier 카지노 게임 컬렉션� I had made it my home and still think about it with those home-tinted glasses on. It카지노 게임 컬렉션�s easy to forget that feeling at home is a process, there카지노 게임 컬렉션�s no shortcut for culture shock.

Overcoming the Bavarian Blues

What does that mean for my current Bavarian blues? Reading about culture shock, I can see that a warm welcome is really in the eye of the beholder. Like the beloved pretzels, I카지노 게임 컬렉션�m certain that Germans, though sometimes salty on the outside, have a warm squishy center that I will see more and more of as I get to know Munich!

Wherever you choose to call home, ultimately you get back as much as you put in. The more you get involved in your new country by meeting people, going to events, and trying new things, the more you카지노 게임 컬렉션�ll understand the people and the culture. Pass me that dirndl 카지노 게임 컬렉션� I카지노 게임 컬렉션�m off to find a beer garden!