How to Survive A Long Distance Relationship
Years later, I would find myself in not one but two long-distance relationships and discover that it wasn카지노 게임 컬렉션t all hugs, kisses, and Hollywood fairytale endings. The truth of the matter is long-distance relationships or LDRs are like a battle in the trenches. This is no Cinderella meets Prince Charming. Unlike normal relationships, LDRs are devoid of all physical contact. It can be hard to feel affection to and intimate with your loved one when all you have is a pixelated blurb on Skype. But LDRs can still work and if you value your partner, you can still make your relationship last even if you카지노 게임 컬렉션re thousands of miles away. Here are some practical tips that can help you.
Establish Your Role in the Relationship
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Like Danielle. Danielle fell head over heels in love with a backpacker, Tony, when they were traveling in Bolivia for a month. Eventually they parted ways, Danielle returning to Belgium and Tony to the States, with the promise of doing long distance till they see each other again.
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They had not known each other long enough to build the foundation of their relationship. Eventually, Tony lost interest and pursued law school while Danielle started dating her grad school classmate.
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Ask Yourself If You Can Do a Long-Distance Relationship
LDRs are not for everyone. Whether it is for you depends on your personality and where you are right now in your life. Can you stand not having someone for a period of time? Are you a good and consistent communicator via emails, instant messaging, or Skype? Can you remain faithful if your sweetheart isn카지노 게임 컬렉션t around? If you answer "no" to most of these questions, a long-distance relationship is not for you.
Communicate Wisely
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Set Up a Schedule
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Give Advance Notice If Something Comes Up
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Set Up a Call Forward for Emergencies
There will be times you won카지노 게임 컬렉션t be able to reach each other. Maybe your loved one is asleep or in the shower. What if they don카지노 게임 컬렉션t have internet access? In case of emergencies, it would help to set up a call forward on your Skype accounts so that when you call your girlfriend or boyfriend on Skype it will automatically forward to their mobile phone or landline.
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